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What people get wrong about imposter syndrome

I don’t remember when I started hearing about it, but soon I started hearing about it everywhere.

Suddenly, imposter syndrome was the thing, even though the term has been around since the 1970s. So many people in my circle were writing about it, talking about it, and apparently suffering from it.

However, I have observed a distortion in our collective discussions about imposter syndrome. People are using the label to describe feelings of insecurity about their inexperience or lack of qualifications.

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What you don’t know you will have

Even as a college student, the only practical career I could visualize for myself was to be a teacher.

I didn’t know much about other careers, and my obsession with music precluded my pursuit of even learning about them. So when I went to college, it was to study music education — a worthy compromise.

I never could have imagined where I’d end up. After all, when I was a kid, there was no Internet.

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Creating problems for ourselves

With the number of lobster buoys dotting Penobscot Bay like sprinkles on an ice cream cone, it was inevitable at some point.

This weekend, we ran right over one in our sailboat.

We had guests on board, and we had been looking for dolphins. When we finally spotted some, we “hove to,” which is a way of immediately stopping a sailboat in motion.

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